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PERFECTIONISM IS KILLING YOU

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​       As I gradually became an adult I realized that being a melancholic was no excuse to allow my perfectionism trait to rule me. The biggest problems youths and young adults face is that they continuously make plans and before they can even act those plans out — they arrive at outcomes        When those “outcomes” differ from reality they become crushed. Broken and they start to fall apart and lose interest.        We crave for the perfect life so much — even in the little things — the perfect video, the perfect photo, the perfect setting - the perfect plan — Well let's face it.         Everything is as perfect as it is permanent as nothing is permanent. Not even the sun. When it’s night time it goes down.          If you keep expecting everything to fall in place every single time then you will keep on hurting yourself in so many ways. You are enough and that is good enough.   ...